By Dery Rodriguez, New Life Alumni Ambassador
Adolescence is a time of self-discovery and personal growth, and my transformative journey began at New Life on Catherine Street in New York City, under the guidance of Kevin Penceal former executive director. He was dedicated to creating a safe space for young people, and it was here that I encountered the powerful concept of “agape love,” as defined by Kevin. This love became the cornerstone of my purpose – to serve and care for others, deeply rooted in my faith in Jesus Christ.
During those formative years, I didn’t fully grasp the importance of having a caring adult in my life, but Amy who worked at NL was one of those individuals who showed me what genuine care and service meant. She became my mentor and friend. My involvement with New Life led me to join the youth leadership program, eventually leading to my first job as a mentor to my peers. These experiences have molded me, and their impact continues to guide my professional journey to this day.
As we celebrate New Life’s anniversary, I am profoundly grateful to Bo and Mary for bringing young people together and offering us opportunities that once seemed out of reach. The outings to Lake Champion and Kings Woods with New Life were filled with fun, even when dealing with Alex Wright’s antics – he was like the big brother I hated and loved – another NL mentor.
What I cherished most about Lake Champion, was the serene still moments at night looking up as the moonlight cast its gentle glow on the water. During those times, I felt the presence of God, which provided comfort as I thought about going back home and the chaos of my youth and the uncertain world of living in the city. The lessons and guidance that I gained from New Life are a constant presence in my life, and NL Catherine Street will forever hold a special place in my heart – brimming with laughter, smiles, spiritual teachings, and the melodies of Kevin Penceal’s music.
I mention Kevin Penceal because he was my hero, a spiritual father not only to me, but to many others. He taught us how to serve Christ through genuine relationships rather than mere religious duty. He possessed a gift for uplifting words during my toughest moments. He would often say to me, “You’re like a rock that people may walk over, but one day, the right person will pick it up and see it’s a diamond.”
On September 18th, I was honored by the Public Advocate in NYC for my consistent dedication to supporting families and students, as well as my commitment to education. I once felt like that overlooked rock, but on the 18th, I felt like a shining diamond. Kevin passed away recently and may not be here to witness it, but I find solace in knowing that he believed in me, as he used to say, “I believe in God.” He foresaw my growth from the 12-year-old who walked into New Life to the woman I am today.
“For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the LORD. “They are plans for good and not for harm, to give you a future and a hope.” My transformation is indeed part of God’s plan, and I embrace it with gratitude and faith.
Dery now serves as a member of the New Life of NYC Board of Directors.
